Toby

I’m a grounded, thoughtful person who values a home that feels steady and respectful. I work in youth support and education, so I’m used to listening well, communicating clearly, and being mindful of how shared spaces affect people. I’m not a party-house person: home is somewhere I like to decompress, cook, read, study philosophy and education, and reset. I am currently working as a high school tutor while I finish up master's

I’m friendly and easy to chat with, but I also really respect personal space and independence. Think: occasional good conversations, not forced socialising. No forced philosophical discussions I’m clean without being obsessive, reliable with bills, and big on doing my share without drama. I tend to keep common areas tidy and believe small things (like not leaving dishes “for later”) make a big difference in shared living. Style-wise I’m pretty understated — lots of denim, boots, and practical layers — and that probably reflects how I live too: low-key, functional, and intentional.

What I’m looking for as a place that feels like a home rather than a crash pad. Ideally: Calm, respectful flatmates Clear communication and shared expectations A tidy, looked-after space People who are comfortable doing their own thing I’m flexible about age and background — I care more about how people live than who they are on paper. House vibes that work for me Shared responsibility, (no passive-aggressive notes lol) Quiet nights during the week Mutual respect for routines, sleep, and downtime A place you’re happy to come back to at the end of the day If this sounds like a good fit, I’d be keen to chat and see if the vibes line up.