I’ve done my party days. I prefer a quiet stay home potter in the garden with my oodle then big nights out. Love to cook but have been single for a few years so don’t cook so extravagant anymore when it’s only for one. Love cooking on my Weber baby q it’s like a staple. I prefer honest open communication not drama I’ve had enough to deal with in my life. I just want to have a nice place to share that feels safe for my boy and like a home for him