Adam

Well I’m honest… I keep to myself a lot, even more life is rough or I’m tired. I am social, it’s just home is the quiet sanctuary and entertaining is not often.

I’m a support worker, always cared for others and those who can’t quite achieve what you’d expect.

I’m full of spontaneous humour and good intentions. I’m ambitious but I often fall short on managing time and I’m too ambitious with opportunity and planning… I’m empathic and considerate, but a bit oblivious, and I prefer those
“This is how I feel… I was hoping… can we draw boundaries and discuss solutions?” Kind of living in co-share arrangements…

I’ve had my share of experiences with moodiness without conversation and expecting telepathy, more takers than reciprocity, consideration deprived and folks with little self awareness and huge double standards… and that’s kinda why I keep to myself a lot…

I like my me time where the world gets quiet, and where I’m not having to perform, conform or be anything other than me. I also like my privacy cos I’m comfortable in my own skin… the whole world is busy stressed, I had a huge relationship bust up a year ago and I’m establishing myself after going through hell and I kinda want the space where I don’t have anyone on my back about stuff.

If rules are clear and agreed on, I follow to the agreed terms. I do the gym thing, the bush, beach and camping thing, swimming I like… I’m often thinking of a thousand things rather than what I would like to do for relax and rec

Got a cat, she’s ace. I’m an ideas man and I can work around problems like you wouldn’t believe. I don’t believe in I can’t… there’s always a way.