I fill in my active lifestyle with each day being one that is busy and demanding. A home is one that I return to for relaxation, socialisation and reflection. My housemates become family in the no-need-to-talk kind of way that I think we all appreciate. I think a little non-food mess is okay, cleaning it is better, especially with help, and knowing when and how to pull my own weight is always clear to me and flexible for the needs of others.