$160/week•26 year old non-binary
Hey, I'm Tali (They/Them).
In the process of looking for a place to live in a transitional period of my life. Seeking folk who are independent, respectful and open-minded - to which I can promise such qualities in return.
Looking for mostly long term arrangements, or at least time enough to secure something more long term in the interim. I am looking for a place south or east of Adelaide, anywhere between Morphett Vale and Unley mostly, but willing to wriggle out of that zone.
I am LGBTQIA+, looking for people that would lean towards being a safe & SUPPORTIVE environment. This is very key, as I am trans identifying, MtF.
I don't really want to give my image to the net, so you'll have to fend with a lack of photo for physical identity on this website. (Happy to meet/video call elsewhere).
I am artistically inclined and will likely spend a lot of time quietly in my own business, and will pursue keeping space to myself. I also run Table Top events online from time to time across the globe and dependent on schedule may have fairly erratic hours in the night or day. I'll keep anyone abreast of this if I need to speak during the evening, but I'll always endeavour to be as unobtrusive as possible.
I am undergoing a lot of processes at the moment to fix elements of myself and combat mental and medical concerns I have not had the life-bandwidth to deal with for a long time, it has put me in a challenging position in more ways than I'd like.
I am currently seeking admin and receptionist contract or full-time work, as well as customer service in bar-tending as part-time alternative, however I may be combating temporary unemployment thanks to a lack of recent work history.
That said, I am financially sound for a good window of time. And you can, regardless, expect me to be punctual with any expectations I am committed to in the household - financial or otherwise, so long as I am made properly aware of them.
I am an animal positive person, and I will get along very well with pets, but not if they are untrained and especially disruptive, as I am coming off some very negative experiences with those kinds of environments.
I clean up after myself, and to be frank, do not wish to be on a rotating cleaning roster or anything of the sort. As I expect everyone to just be clean in their own merits and keep public areas maintained (within reason), but I will acquiesce to rotating cleaning duties if it is a necessity.
I do not believe there is much more I can reasonably share in a bio on a website without detracting from nuance that is better served in discussion.
I am, of course, open to questions that help inform the choice of if you feel I would be suitable to live around.
I was originally hoping to move by November 2023, but I REALLY am going to need to move before April this year, so if I've contacted you and we're close to that date, please give me your consideration.
I have had poor luck with any location willing to give me a chance, or communicate at all, and it is very hard to keep decorum in any desperation to locate a place to live. First impressions stick after all, but it is an impossible balance trying to find what people want in a flatmate, and I am beginning to think there just isn't a correct answer.
I will be forthright and upfront on all accounts, and you can expect that plain forthright nature to carry in the expression of the living environment, even as a very private person.
I truly believe I mark up against anyone as a better candidate to live with as I know and respect boundaries very well, but maybe it is just a question of finances, and if so I really need someone who is willing to put a person in a place to live that is at the fraying end of few alternatives.
This is perhaps more a dreary footnote than I would normally intend, and have no wish to express this kind of self, but feel I must addendum as much as, truly, I have had no luck at all in finding a place. And I know not at what point my circumstances will become without recourse, but I worry it to be soon.
Available 1 June 2024
